Archive for July, 2007

Can orgasm be triggered by a touch on the hand?

By a seductive voice or a mere word?

I once had a mysterious experience. I reached out to hold his hand. When mine touched his, ohh massive waves of pleasures came rushing down onto me. It was electrifying.

I don’t think he knew some extraordinary stuff to make me feel like that and I don’t think he realized it at the time, either. But, it was very powerful for me. Although I never understand it, I would never forget it.

It was magic!

Wendi Friesen demonstrated this in a Showtime Special with a girl, and also in another session with a group of 50 people that it was indeed possible to induce orgasm without having “real” sex. View a video clip as Wendi explains it here.

Wow, what would it be like if ….?


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10 Most Romantic Movies Line

We have always been touched by lines in the movies, and wish that we could say something as romantic as these lines. Of course, we are no screenwriters and poets, but it doesn’t mean we cannot get ideas from these most romantic lines, improvise and in some romantic moments, whisper those sweet words to our loved ones.

Well, the following are my voted 10 most romantic movies line of all time.

As you are re-visiting the romantic moments and savoring in the sweet lines, think of your loved ones and sweetheart, and put in little love in her heart. Here are to those we have loved and love. Enjoy,

#10: “If there’s any kind of magic in this world, it must be in the attempt of understanding someone, sharing something. I know, it’s almost impossible to succeed, but…who cares, really? The answer must be in the attempt.”–Celine (Julie Delpy), Before Sunrise (1995).
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#9: “It seems right now that all I’ve ever done in my life is making my way here to you.”–Robert Kincaid (Clint Eastwood), The Bridges of Madison County (1995).

#8: “Michael…I’ve loved you for nine years, I’ve just been too arrogant and scared to realize it, and… well, now I’m just scared. So, I realize this comes at a very inopportune time but I really have this gigantic favor to ask of you. Choose me. Marry me. Let me make you happy. Oh, that sounds like three favors, doesn’t it?”–Julianne Potter (Julia Roberts), My Best Friend’s Wedding (1997).
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#7: “We’ll always have Paris.”–Rick Blaine (Humphrey Bogart), Casablanca (1942).

#6: “Loretta, I love you. Not like they told you love is, and I didn’t know this either, love don’t make things nice–it ruins everything. It breaks your heart. It makes things a mess. We aren’t here to make things perfect. The snowflakes are perfect. The stars are perfect. Not us. Not us! We are here to ruin ourselves and to break our hearts and love the wrong people and die…Now I want you to come upstairs with me and get in my bed!”–Ronny Cammareri (Nicolas Cage), Moonstruck


#5: “I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it.”–Seth (Nicolas Cage), City of Angels (1998).

#4: “Winning that ticket, Rose, was the best thing that ever happened to me… it brought me to you. And I’m thankful for that, Rose. I’m thankful. You must do me this honor, Rose. Promise me you’ll survive. That you won’t give up, no matter what happens, no matter how hopeless. Promise me now, Rose, and never let go of that promise.”–Jack Dawson (Leonardo DiCaprio, Titanic 1997),

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Now down to the last three: #3: “I love that you get cold when it’s 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle in your nose when you’re looking at me like I’m nuts. I love that after I spend day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it’s not because I’m lonely, and it’s not because it’s New Year’s Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.”–Harry Burns (Billy Crystal), When Harry Met Sally (1989).

#2: “No, I don’t think I will kiss you, although you need kissing, badly. That’s what’s wrong with you. You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how.”–Rhett Butler (Clark Gable), Gone With the Wind (1939).

And my voted No. 1 most romantic line of all time …

#1: “It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, they meant we were suppose to be together… and I knew it. I knew it the very first time I touched her. It was like coming home… only to no home I’d ever known… I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car and I knew. It was like… magic.–Sam Baldwin (Tom Hanks), Sleepless in Seattle (1993).

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I have a nagging question and I still don’t know the answer for sure.

The question:

When I walk on the street I occasionally bump into someone (literally), and after that I don’t know if there is a rule, like when I’m walking north, I should step to the right, or to the left? And so, with that confusion, usually I will bump into that someone again a second time.

‘Excuse me…” “Ooops….”

That was embarrassing.

This question came up as we were walking to get our cars after a first date.

So I stopped, right there on the street, and demonstrated. Stepped to the right, stepped up and to the left. He kinda followed, and this demonstration made it look and feel like we were dancing on the street.

Although we didn’t touch, hold hands, or anything, but the proximity has made it quite intimate, and delightful!

Now, why is dancing, especially on the street, so appealing?

I think it’s that spontaneousness, as you lose yourself of time and space when you totally involve in that rhythm and with that special someone that makes it so.

Dancing in the Moonlight

So, have you ever danced on the street, in the moonlight? And how do you like it?

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Jack wakes up at home with a huge hangover he can’t believe. He forces himself to open his eyes, and the first thing he sees is a couple of aspirins next to a glass of water on the side table. And, next to them, a single red rose! Jack sits down and see his clothing in front of him, all clean and pressed.

Jack looks around the room and sees that it is in perfect order, spotlessly clean. So it the rest of the house. He takes the aspirins.

He cringes when he sees a huge black eye staring back at him in the bathroom mirror, and notices a note on the table. “Honey, breakfast is on the stove. I left early to go shopping — love you!”

He stumbles to the kitchen and sure enough, there is hot breakfast and the morning newspaper. His son is also at the table, eating.

Jack asks, “Son, what happened last night?”

“Well, you came home after 3 a.m., drunk and out of your mind. You broke some furniture, puked in the hallway, and got that black eye when you ran into the door.

“So, why is everything in such perfect order, so clean, I have a rose, and breakfast is on the table waiting for me?”

His son replies, “Oh That! Mom dragged you to the bedroom, and when she tried to take your pants off, you screamed, “Leave me alone, lady, I’m married.”

Broken furniture – $185.26

Hot breakfast – $6.70

Red rose bud – $3.00

Two aspirins – $0.38

Saying the right thing, at the right time – Priceless.

Isn’t this what we crave? To be loved and appreciated?

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Someone sent me this joke and that makes me wonder about an old man, young wife or older wife, young man relationships:

A married couple, in their early 60s, was out celebrating their 35th wedding anniversary in a quiet, romantic little restaurant.

Suddenly, a tiny yet beautiful fairy appeared on their table and said, “For being such an exemplary married couple and for being faithful to each other for all this time, I will grant you each a wish.

“Ooh, I want to travel around the world with my darling husband” said the wife.

The fairy moved her magic stick and – abracadabra! – two tickets for the new QM2 luxury liner appeared in her hands.

Now it was the husband’s turn. He thought for a moment and said: “Well this is all very romantic, but an opportunity like this only occurs once in a life time, so, I’m sorry, my love, but my wish is to have a wife 30 years younger than me”.

The wife and the fairy were deeply disappointed; but a wish is a wish. So the fairy made a circle with her magic stick and – abracadabra! – the husband became 90 years old.

The moral of this story….Men might be ungrateful idiots, but fairies are female.

I used to think relationship spanning decade/s apart is a recipe for disaster as the couple may just have too little in common.

In the old days, old man-young wife is acceptable, but older wife-young husband marriage is so frowned upon. In recently years, it has become a trend.

My friend, a Caucasian man, who married a Chinese woman 17 years younger than him, seems to be doing fine. He says with the younger wife he has to remain young — psychologically, mentally and physically — to keep up with her, and that makes it wonderful for him.

Guys, much, much younger than me, hit on me before. But I am too old-fashioned at the time to take him up.

A chronically-mature (40s, 50s, 60s) person can be immature and reckless, while a chonically-tender person can be mature and prudent, so basing the compatibility of a relationship solely on age has become ineffective.

This so-called May-December relationship has become more acceptable, and even fashionable. Just look at high profile couples like Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore, Guy Ritchie and Madonna, and even Joan Collins and Percy Gilbons with 32 years apart.

Communication network and technology has made connection with most part of the globe a snap of the finger. And with easier accessibility of information, all of us has to learn new things, to keep up with gadgets, news, and technology. The myth about nothing in common can be easily remedied by learning and participating.

If two people are in love with each other, perhaps the differences in age, background, and interests might be a blessing after all as they can learn and share new and diverse experiences together.

I’m not into fishing, sailing or racing cars, but if those were his passion, I would love to go sailing with him. To me, that’s a part of loving.

So, to you guys, have you ever wished to have a wife decades younger than you? and you gals, how do you think of a marraige with a husband much younger than you?

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If you were like me who see humor in any situation, life can be a lot of fun.

Once, we went to the movies.

Before going in, we made a trip to the rest room.

I led the way and went to the room on my right. My date automatically followed my lead and went to the one on the left. Then I looked up and saw the sign as I was pushing the door open, oh no, that is the Men’s Territory.

Alarmed, I immediately called out to him as he was about to go in, “it’s the wrong side!” and we swiftly exchanged places.

I went in and looked, whew, there was no one inside.

So I finished what I needed to do and came out. He was waiting for me outside.

I don’t know if anyone saw us. I thought that was quite funny.

Have you ever seen those hot, erotic movies scenes where couple have sex passionately, and dangerously in the public rest room?

Now in retrospect, hehe perhaps I should have pulled him into the Ladies Room so we can snatch a quickie there. Wow, wouldn’t that be naughty?

On top of being naughty, the delicious fear of being caught in any second just makes it much more exciting, and pleasurable!

Have you done anything naughty lately?

According to an interesting poll from MSNBC: “Have you ever Frolicked in a Forbidden Place” of 15,753 respondents 83% said they had sex in a public place and 5.4% were caught.

That just reminds me of reading in the news, and I’m not making it up, that a couple fell to deaths from rooftop of a tall building, naked!


My advice for the sake of safety, even in the heat of passion try to exercise some precautionary measures and be mindful of any potential danger while you are venturing out.

And hey, if you decide to make out on the rooftop, I know it’s not sexy but strap a parachute on your waist, OK?

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Chance Meeting

Throughout our lives we met people and made friends.  Some friends came into our lives briefly then went just as fast as they came, some stayed for a long time and had become dear friends that we treasure. 

Now with the internet, there is no boundary limitation and we can meet and make friends all over the globe. 

Chance Meeting, a poem

I’m but a cloud,

draping my silhouette along your path by chance

No need to be surprised nor excited,

as I will disappear soon afterwards.

Along a darkened sea we glanced past,

You with your destiny, I with mine.

Whether you would remember,

or you would rather forget

the spark we felt when we had met!

How many friends have touched your life deeply, and how many you have reached out to touch?

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