Have you have had some kind of gut feelings about something or someone?
I never realize I have. And the very first and crucial time my subsconcious, or inner self or whatever you call it, was shouting at me, I didn’t know any better to listen to it then, and I live to regret it.
When we are in love, we have that euphoric feelings of being in love that we often times ignore that little nagging inside our head that tells us otherwise.
I am basically a “feeling” person, so to determine whether I am attracted to that someone or want to continue dating him would depend largely on how I feel with him.
However, feeling could be so elusive and puzzling.
I went out with this guy on our first date after emails and phone calls.
One thing about me is I can never stand a smoker because I’m terribly sensitive to cigarette smoke, and just a little remnant of it would repel me. So very soon after we met, I knew, to my dismay, he is a heavy smoker, and that makes it very difficult for me to feel comfortable in his company.
Even with this odd against him, the most unimaginable thing is I had this feeling of having met him somewhere before, of having known him, although I know I hadn’t.
You probably know that feeling. The feeling of familiarity, of feeling safe and secure in his company, that kind of thing.
If you have been searching for your soulmate, the one and the only one that you have been waiting for all your life, I can tell you, this feeling is overwhelming.
To this date, I never understood why I had that feeling. Clearly, he is not a match, and being born on the same strong sign that we are doesn’t help either because there is little chance that we can compromise on things.
Anyway, after many months we did have personality conflicts and the romance ended. Last time I went out with him, that feeling of familiarity was gone as if it had never come at all. I was stunned at the time how I felt nothing for him. How can feelings just leave like that?
Feeling could be so tricky, sign…..
How I would love to transfer that elusive feeling to another more compatible candidate? But I have no say in that.
Have you ever had any gut feelings about someone?
If you had, no matter how tiny or trivial, listen attentively to it Check it out as that may very well save you lots of heartbreak and unhappiness down the road.
I agree with you…listen to that inner self that speaks to you. Sometimes we also hear the inner voice but no do listen. But that is a different subject for you to write about. I believe a lot of women have heard the inner voice when it comes to dating and people in general.
Hi Sensual Element,
Yes, especially when that inner voice is contrary to what we want to hear. Nevertheless, usually it turns out to be that inner voice is right all along. Oh well.